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Updated: Feb 19



Your wedding day should be magical, but that doesn’t mean it has to break the bank! With some clever planning, prioritising what truly matters, and thinking outside the box, you can have a stunning and memorable wedding without overspending. Here’s how to plan your dream wedding on a budget.


1. Set a Realistic Budget (and Stick to It!)

The first step to planning a budget-friendly wedding is knowing exactly how much you can spend. Break your budget down into categories—venue, food, dress, entertainment, etc.—and be realistic about what you can afford. Having a clear budget will keep your spending in check and help you prioritise what truly matters.


2. Choose an Affordable (or Free!) Venue

Venues can be one of the biggest wedding expenses, but there are plenty of ways to save: Consider off-peak dates – Winter weddings or weekday ceremonies are often much cheaper. Opt for a non-traditional venue – Parks, gardens, village halls, or even a friend’s garden can create a magical setting. Check out local venues – Community centres and smaller independent venues can be far more affordable than large hotels.


3. Personalise with a Celebrant-Led Wedding

A celebrant-led wedding allows you the freedom to choose your location, meaning you’re not restricted to licensed venues, which can often be costly. You can have your ceremony anywhere you like, from a beach to your own back garden! Plus, you’ll get a ceremony that’s personal, meaningful, and unique to you.


4. Save on Wedding Attire

Consider buying pre-loved dresses and suits—many charity shops now have dedicated bridal sections. High street brands like ASOS, Monsoon, and John Lewis have beautiful and affordable wedding outfits. Borrow accessories from friends or family to add a sentimental (and free!) touch.


5. DIY Where You Can

If you love a bit of crafting, get creative with: Handmade invitations or digital invites to save on printing costs. DIY flower arrangements using supermarket or market flowers. A homemade wedding cake or a simple one-tier cake instead of a grand design.


6. Keep the Guest List Intimate

More guests = higher costs. A smaller, more intimate wedding means you can spend more per guest while keeping the overall cost down. Prioritise your closest family and friends to make the day more personal and special.


7. Find Budget-Friendly Catering Options

Buffets, food trucks, or picnic-style meals can be more affordable than a sit-down meal. Bring Your Own Drinks if your venue allows it. This can save a fortune on bar costs.

Ditch expensive favours, your guests will cherish the memories more than a trinket.


8. Save on Photography & Entertainment

Hire a new or up-and-coming photographer as they often offer lower rates in exchange for experience. Ask a talented friend to perform live music or create a wedding playlist instead of hiring a DJ. Use a wedding hashtag and ask guests to take and share photos for a fun, free digital album!


9. Plan Ahead & Hunt for Deals

Booking early often means better rates, so don’t leave things until the last minute. Look for wedding fairs, online discounts, and special deals for early bookings.


10. Remember What Matters Most

At the heart of it all, your wedding is about celebrating your love. A beautiful, meaningful ceremony doesn’t need to cost a fortune—it just needs to be true to you.




Looking for a Celebrant to Create Your Perfect Wedding Ceremony?

I’d love to help. Get in touch today to find out how a celebrant-led wedding can give you the flexibility, personality, and magic you’re looking for!

Contact me today to start planning your dream wedding!





young newly wed couple standing side by side, looking into each others eyes.  In the background is the church the married in.

Planning your wedding is one of the most exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) journeys you’ll embark on as a couple. With so many details to consider, it’s easy to feel like you don’t know where to start. Don’t worry—I’m here to help! Here’s a step-by-step guide to planning a day that reflects your love story and leaves you with cherished memories.


Step 1: Set Your Vision and Budget

Start by dreaming big! Do you envision an intimate garden wedding, a grand stately Hall celebration, or a beachside ceremony? Once you have a general idea, set your budget to ensure your dreams align with your finances. This will help guide all your decisions moving forward.


Step 2: Choose Your Date and Venue

Your wedding date and venue are the foundation of your day. Popular dates and venues book up quickly, so secure these early. Consider factors like guest count, location, and whether the venue complements your overall vision.


Step 3: Assemble Your Dream Team

From photographers to florists, caterers to wedding planners, you’ll want to bring in professionals who share your vision and style. Don’t forget about your celebrant—your ceremony is the heart of your day, and having a celebrant ensures it’s personal, meaningful, and unforgettable!


Step 4: Plan Your Ceremony

This is where the magic happens! With a celebrant-led ceremony, you have the freedom to personalise every detail—from your vows to symbolic rituals, readings, and music. Start early and work closely with your celebrant to create a ceremony that reflects your unique love story.


Step 5: Curate the Details

Now it’s time to dive into the fun stuff! Think about:

  • Décor and Theme: Choose colours, flowers, and accents that tie everything together.

  • Outfits: From the dress and suit to accessories, find what makes you feel your best.

  • Music and Entertainment: Create the perfect atmosphere with your favourite tunes.


Step 6: Create a Timeline

A detailed timeline ensures everything runs smoothly. Work with your vendors and celebrant to map out the day, from getting ready to the final dance. Make sure to allow some buffer time for unforeseen delays.


Step 7: Relax and Enjoy the Journey

Planning a wedding can feel stressful at times, but remember, this is a celebration of love! Take breaks, lean on your support system, and trust your vendors to bring your vision to life.


Wedding Planning Checklist

Task

Timeline

Notes

Set your budget

12-18 months before wedding

Include all key expenses

Choose a date and venue

12-18 months before wedding

Confirm availability early

Hire key vendors (celebrant, photographer, caterer)

9-12 months before wedding

Book in advance for popular vendors

Finalise guest list

9-12 months before wedding

Send save-the-dates

Choose your wedding outfits

6-9 months before wedding

Allow time for fittings

Plan the ceremony details

6 months before wedding

Work closely with your celebrant

Confirm timeline with vendors

1-3 months before wedding

Double-check all arrangements

Finalise décor and details

1-2 months before wedding

Ensure everything matches your theme

Enjoy your big day!

Wedding day

Relax, smile, and soak in every moment!


Final Thoughts

Your wedding day is one of the most meaningful moments of your life, and planning it should be just as special. By taking it step by step and focusing on what matters most to you, you’ll create a day that’s perfect in every way.


Ready to Plan the Perfect Ceremony?As a celebrant, I’m here to help you craft a ceremony that’s personal, heartfelt, and completely unique to you. Let’s make your wedding day unforgettable. Get in touch to start planning!


two brides holding hands facing each other

Your wedding day is one of the most important moments in your life, so why settle for something that doesn’t feel completely “you”? Gone are the days of formal ceremonies; today’s couples are embracing creativity, individuality, and meaning in every detail of their big day.

As a celebrant, I’ve seen firsthand how breaking the traditional mould can result in a wedding ceremony that is not only memorable but also truly reflects your personality and love story. Let’s explore how you can make your ceremony one-of-a-kind.


1. Write Your Own Vows

There’s nothing more personal than sharing your own words with your partner. Whether it’s a heartfelt promise, a touch of humour, or a nod to your favourite shared memories, writing your vows allows you to express your love authentically. If writing feels daunting, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.


bride and groom standing in front of a metal graffitied fence

2. Choose a Non-Traditional Location

Why stick to the usual venues? Imagine saying “I do” at the top of a hill overlooking the countryside, in a wildflower meadow, or even in your own backyard. A celebrant-led ceremony gives you the freedom to choose a location that means something special to you, without the constraints of traditional venues.


3. Incorporate Symbolic Rituals

Add a touch of tradition—or invent your own! Symbolic rituals like handfasting, a unity candle, or a sand ceremony are beautiful ways to visually represent your union. For a more modern twist, consider a unity cocktail where you mix your favourite drinks together to symbolise your bond (and enjoy a sip afterward!).


4. Involve Your Loved Ones

Why not let your family or friends play a part in your ceremony? Ask a loved one to do a reading, share a personal story, or even perform music. And don’t forget your four-legged family members—dogs walking down the aisle are always a crowd-pleaser!


5. Blend Cultures and Traditions

If you and your partner come from different backgrounds, a personalised ceremony is the perfect way to honour both cultures. From incorporating meaningful rituals to including traditional attire or music, we can weave together elements that celebrate your unique story.


bride and groom.  Groom is on a motorbike and the bride is running after him.  The photo is set in a wasteland scene.

6. Play with the Tone

A wedding ceremony doesn’t have to be formal. It can be lighthearted, humorous, and full of personality. Whether you want to share inside jokes, recount a funny story, or even include a surprise for your guests, the tone of your ceremony is entirely up to you.


7. Make It Interactive

Get your guests involved! Whether it’s a group vow, a shared moment of reflection, or a fun surprise like a confetti toss during your kiss, interactive elements make your ceremony unforgettable for everyone.


Why Choose a Celebrant for Your Unique Ceremony?

With a celebrant-led wedding, there are no rules—only possibilities. I work closely with you to craft a ceremony that celebrates who you are as a couple, ensuring every detail feels personal, meaningful, and reflective of your love story.

Let’s create a ceremony that will leave you and your guests talking about it for years to come!


Ready to Start Planning? Get in touch today to start crafting a ceremony as unique as your love. Whether you already have ideas or need inspiration, I’d love to help bring your dream day to life.

Nicola West Signature






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